Secondly, if you want to marry a girl and you discover that her parents failed in marriage, will you marry the girl?

I confronted him with this information and to my surprise he did not deny it. He said he was scared of telling me the truth for fear or losing me.

In fact one time my mum said “You will not go and get married, you are busy jumping from one party to another”. ” You have never brought a man home that he wants to marry you”. “You are my only daughter, at your age i was married”. “Do not disgrace us”. Very evil talk Iyke.

How are you Mr.Guess? I saw your post on FB about one lady talking about how “You work hard with the man for 5 years and he dumps you on arrival”.

Anyway my friend confronted him and “this bobo say him no do again”! He said he’s no more interested in my friend. He has made money and now he has remembered that my friend is older than him and that she is short and fat!!!

This is the third time i am losing a job because of my health condition. Is this fair? Is it my fault? My spirit is low and my self esteem is drained. I feel like people with my plight have been segregated.

“Daddy, will you bring another mummy”?…i honestly did not understand her so i asked her what she meant…”my mummy said that you have 3 mummy and that you will bring another mummy for me”

“Babe, but i see you on FB almost everyday liking pics of girls of all sorts wearing the same semi nude dress that you ask me not to wear”.

“Abeg go jo, you just dey knack us since”.”You don use our money go buy car na”

is always quick to indirectly challenge my instructions and what is worse is that she does it right in front of my other staff and i hate that she does that

Ummmm…Someone sent me this…You can find out Guess Iyke’s response….

But you met me acting in the church drama and you said you like what i do!! How come you don’t want me to pursue my dreams?

But trust me Naija boy!! I sat down and ignored her. But guess what? She stood up along with her daughters, carried their food and left. I cared less.

“You know that i really like sex. Am i going to be without sex for 16 months”?

My worry now is that i don’t know if his friend has told him. “You know how guys talk”. “But Iyke, oo; i am 38 years old and if i lose this guy, where i wan start from.”

1st of January, i called my husband to wish him a happy new year and a woman answered his phone. I asked who she was but she just hung up and when i called back the phone was switched off.

I was alarmed. I even went as far as saying “how are we sure she has not already started playing with our 2 year old son’s penis”

I asked him if it was MMM and he said yes. I said “but i thought MMM is suspended”!. “You worry too much” was my boyfriends response and he hung up.

She works with an insurance company and her boss brings her home every night! I mean every night and its never earlier than 8 pm. I walk into the room and she hangs up the phone.She passwords her phone. I cannot access it

“Mama meet my fiancee….”. Guess Iyke, i turned red and green the same time. “But she is obviously older than you”..those were my thoughts….”Mum the way you are unjustly attacking her person, is it not the same way you said, my dad’s mum was unjustly attacking you”?

“Where do you work”? “Where you dey come from”? “Oga see my paper for your floor na”!!! Iyke by this time, i was pissed, mad and very mad. ” O, the thing fall from my hand sef”. “Sorry no vex”.

Iyke, i noticed that his left hand disappear under the table and stayed disappeared for a long time.”I went out with my cousin”!! She yelled back. “Exactly my point”. I said sitting up. “The more reason why your lipstick and makeup should still be on your face by now”.

His hands moved from my back to my breast.”Are you alright”? “Are you trying to mock me or what”? Guess Iyke, next thing i knew, he grabbed my hand and pulled me. I screamed, he dragged me into his room and Guess Iyke that was it. Horrible 10 minutes of my life. I screamed, i yelled, i kicked, i scratched but my poor strength was nothing compared to his mass.

You know how fast children grow these days and when i engage her in a discussion as to why she acts strangely towards my male friends she just says “mum, i do not like it”.

“this young man doesn’t seem very sound”.”he doesn’t know how to talk to customers”. “You don’t know he smokes”? I asked her.

“If he can turn around and betray you like this, who knows what he will do to me given the opportunity”.”I will pay him off tomorrow and that is it”. “My son, all my years on earth, i have never seen such wisdom”

“So that i put their pictures on my DP on their birthdays, does not mean anything”? “You want to turn my life to a bore”? “I had friends before we got married so i should fashy them ehnn”? “Your problem is just insecurity”.

“Can he hate me and love you my wife”? “when both of you eventually make up, what happens to me”? I asked. “Will i not look foolish”?

“How can they think that you want to marry them just because you were friendly?” She asked. “I am a woman and i know what i mean”. “There must be something you did that passed on the message”.

“Anytime wen i come here na so, so the guy things i dey see for your room”.”Na you know, they guy just dey help me fix things for house”.I replied. “Ehnn, Mr.Fix it abi”.(that was the name my boyfriend gave him).”Make him no go fix you one day sha”.

“and i was planning to take her to meet my mum”. My heart bleed and OMG! What has this guy done to me!

“I took you people in as my family and in less than two months, you are already stealing from me”! “Is doing the right thing always doing the best thing”?

I’ve been with many men in my life so i’m sure by now you would say since we have dated for over 5 months that we would have had sex..well

“You need Jesus more than i do”. The preacher looked lost for a second and asked

“You no dey understand english again”! “You better start coming home”. “Your house is empty”.

about 30 minutes when suddenly the lights went off, music stopped playing, then

“Woman is this who you have trained your child to be”? He yelled at my mum.

When suddenly 3 men appeared from the darkness

“Your friend had an accident” the voice said.